A week ago tonight, we were glued to the television watching the updates on a slowly approaching storm named Hurricane Sally. She had been slowly wandering our way for a few days and was finally getting ready to come ashore. We were listening to the wind howling and the rain pelting everything as hard as it could. It was all so loud. Every once in a while, the house would shake when a particularly strong gust of wind would hit it. The trees outside were bending and bowing with the wind, shedding leaves and limbs as they did. The small branches with acorns attached sounded like popcorn on my roof as they flew through the air and landed, sliding down or blowing away to cover the ground. As the eye of Sally came closer and closer to land, we lost power and the wind became stronger. A loud thud sounded and as we looked out of the window with the flashlight, we could see the large branch from one of our oaks laying on the deck. It was swaying back and forth ready to become a projectile into our door at any moment. The wind sounded like very, very, loud, angry waves breaking onshore. Another big thud that we not only heard but felt as the house took the impact. Another look out the window and there was my favorite oak resting across the corner of my deck. Thankfully, it missed the house!
Sally was about to make landfall about ten miles or so west of us. That wind…oh, my goodness, I’ve never heard wind like that. Finally, after hours of howling, it started to die down and eventually stopped. The silence was deafening at first.
Neighbors started coming out to check on the damage and each other. The sound of the wind was quickly replaced with the sound of chainsaws and generators. No one worked clearing and cleaning alone. We all pitched together and helped each other clean up the mess Sally left behind. Food and water, gas and tools, time and manpower…it was all shared freely and without any expectation of something in return.
We had no power, internet, or even decent cell service at first. Texting worked best in those first few days. At least we could communicate with family to let them know we were okay. Those utility trucks showing up on Friday was the most beautiful sight in the world. Those guys worked hard, long hours to get our power back on. It was five days after the storm when the lights came back on to stay and we were so happy.
I have to say that I have never been a part of a natural disaster. It is so humbling. And heart wrenching. I’ve been told that at times like this the best and worst of people surface. We’ve seen nothing but the best. People have been kind, and generous, and giving. We’ve had some gawkers and although it is irritating, I understand it. But for the most part, we’ve seen mostly helpful, kind people. One group brought us bottles of water and the makings for PB and J. Another group stopped and helped cut up some of the trees. Yet another dropped off a cooler full of drinks, fruit, and ice. Even today, a week later, a lady from a relief agency rang my doorbell and handed me dinner.
A week later, the water has receded, leaving a mess behind. The power is back on, the boil water order has been lifted, the yard is cleaned up, the tree is gone, and life is slowly returning to somewhat normal. The debris is piled high along the side of every road. The trees and limbs are bad enough, but it’s heartbreaking to see whole households sitting there. These are people’s memories, their possessions that filled their houses and made it their home. It goes on for miles. And yet, people are thankful. And hopeful. This is just stuff. They will rebuild, make new memories, and life will go on.
Sally may have knocked us all down for a while, but she didn’t knock us out. What she did was bring us all together. Neighbors helped neighbors, strangers helped strangers, and people from all over have come to lend a helping hand. And none of on either side of the equation has asked or cared about what color our skin is, which religion we are, political party we belong to, or football team we cheer for. All that mattered is that we are fellow human beings and needed help. This is how is should be every day, all day long.
“…Love thy neighbor as thyself.” Matthew 22:29